
Some of the things I love:
Truth be told, I’m drawn to action more than words.
There’s something incredibly charming about a gentleman who knows how to spoil a lady, right? It’s that perfect balance of thoughtfulness and luxury that makes us feel truly taken care of. And honestly, who wouldn’t want to be treated like that now and then? It’s the little things that make it all feel extra special... so, just in case you’re wondering what might catch my eye, please find below an up-to-date list of my desires…
Cash is King
I’ll be honest: there’s no thrill on earth better than a man who hands me stacks of cash.
You can easily and discreetly send me a tip (and other items too) here. Bank transfer and USDC/USDT are also an option, or cash in person when we meet.
Shopping gift cards
Spa gift cards
My email address to receive gift cards is arabellablairxo@protonmail.com
Most wanted items
As Maslow so wisely pointed out in his “Hierarchy of Needs”, shelter - aka the security and safety of a home - is one of the most basic human needs. Right now, I'm saving up to buy my dream home, which, let's face it, feels like a distant dream for so many in the newer generations. That being said, the most appreciated gift would be a contribution to this goal - whether it's a cash gift in person or a sweet bank transfer.
But I totally get it: some of you might want to gift me something you can actually see on me. After all, men are visual creatures, right? So, for those who prefer to spoil me with something a little more... wearable, I’ve put together a list of my most-wanted items.
Hermès Kelly bag 25, 28 or 32 (I would love crocodile, alligator, lizard or Touch, but I don’t discriminate)
Hermès Birkin bag 25, 30 or 35 (I would love crocodile, alligator, lizard or Touch, but I don’t discriminate)
Hermès Kelly Pochette bag (I would love lizard, crocodile or alligator)
Patek Philippe watches: current favourites are 7118/1450G, 7118/1200R, 7140R, 7140G
Panthère de Cartier diamond paved watch
Lady-Datejust Rolex watch in yellow gold | President or Jubilee bracelet | green, mother-of-pearl or gold dial | gem-set hour markers
Van Cleef & Arpels Perlée sweet clovers bracelet, medium model, 18k rose gold and diamond, size SM
If you would like to gift me one of these items, but you’re struggling to source it, I can recommend Sotheby’s, Christie’s, Love Luxury, Bagista and Sellier Knightsbridge
Do you want to gift me something, but you don’t like any of the above? It’s always fun to go shopping and get something together!
While gifts are always appreciated, they are never expected, I simply compiled this small list as I often get asked for gifts guidance.